School.
I know, I know. It sends shudders up your spine, you wrinkle your nose, and if you're at all like me, you just twitched, then sighed and groaned a very unhappy groan.
Let me be clear. We are not focusing on the S word yet but I had to order s books. And I have been looking at backpacks just because I like to have all that
I don't know that there's any hope for my kids because I dislike school almost as much as they do. Don't get me wrong. We do it whole heartedly, I just empathize with them.
I can't fake it.
"Mom. I don't want to do school."
What do I say?
"I know, dude. Me either."
I can't work up a fake, " Oh, school is great!"
The only response I can muster is,
"Well, guess what? I don't really want to do laundry either. And I'm guessing Daddy probably didn't really want to go to work today. And I'd rather go to the beach than cook dinner. But! We have to work. You better get used to the idea. Work hard so you can play hard later. It's just the way life is."
It's not sexy but it's the hard, cold truth. And most of us don't even know what real work is, so I say, let's get to it with as little complaining as possible.
Have no idea where I was going with the above but there it is.
We recently celebrated our 16th wedding anniversary.
There was no sweet, long tribute but I think following pretty much sums it up.
THIS is why I'm one of the luckiest girls in the world:
and this is weird. my girl is doing her round-off back handspring in the purple leo.
it's like a 13 second video but it's playing non stop.
have no idea.
but this is where she spends 7 and 1/2 hours a week....working her happy little rear end off.
sweetest girls from the sweetest Mama and Daddy. (not mine, but our friends)
~I'm not that arrogant~
and......it could have been a Matilda Jane convention.
we hung curtains finally and baby got a new rug.
anyone who asks her about it hears,
"and it's SO soft!"
yes, that's Reese rolling or flipping......shocker.
she loves my bed and I love summer days where I can take 20 minutes and lay there
and listen to her giggle and hear her whisper, "Mommy, you're my girl, aren't I?"
what my mud room looked like when I walked by it.
(almost done organizing it....)
my pattern is this:
organize, gradual mess accumulates, pick it up,
more gradual mess, a couple crazy days go by,
I peek in and declare,
"good grief! Looks like a bomb went off in here!"
re-tidy, re-organize.
repeat.
(oh! and this picture is mild mess. gets WAY worse. trust that.)
what it would look like if I, hypothetically spruced it up for a picture.
why do we do that?
....I guess it does look like this sometimes just not nearly as often as it does the other.
and!
I'm working on some really good plans to make our home life during the school year go a little smoother.
here's hoping I actually finish planning and implementing before crazy fall schedule kicks in.
~stacey
aw. good to catch up a bit here! love your baby girl~ she's getting so big. and that is not your mud room? seriously? it's all fancy and ralph lauren looking!!!! but, i'll still be your friend even if you have a fancy ralph lauren mud room, just cause you're so sweet! ;))
ReplyDeletehappy anniversary!! didn't realize you guys were so close to us.. we're coming up on 17 this fall. brad sounds like a keeper!! fine wine for sure!
Ralph Lauren, my tail! .....well maybe a little. It is dark a manly for sure.
DeleteI'm thankful for the space and mostly for the fact that it has a door that shuts!
Took a quick peek at your new place. Exciting!
Your pictures have always been good but every time I see a new one, they get better and better. Good thing you started a business...... It was about time. Wish I could be your assistant!
Come on down south. :-)
"the other s word..." hilarious!!! and haha too over the cold hard truth not being sexy. at least when it comes to school and such. because I LOVE that Brad said ↑ to you! Can't beat that when it comes to celebrating commitment!
ReplyDeletei'm seeing something about Freedom on your chalkboard--- love that too!